Other than Gonch saying at some point to 'show proof or GTFO', I'm the only person that I see that said if someone doesn't like how things are here and are unhappy that nobody is keeping them here. That was in response to what Ensign Smith said, and you replied to me. Then You said:
if one more person "shows me the door" either generically or specifically, as a response to my challenging the cultural norms around here, I'm slamming it on their typing fingers.
Who was that in response to? What post?
I'll answer your question and then please let it go, man.
You said: And the tone of your posts, especially the last one, seem to indicate at least a slight annoyance on your part.
I'll reiterate: If you want to discuss, argue, post, okay. But for the people that seem to get annoyed more often than not, don't post. Or don't post as often.
LK said: CoasterBuzz is supposed to be fun. If you are not having fun hanging with us, there are other people hanging in other circles that you might find more in common with. I say that with a smile. I wish everyone happiness here.
You said: I never understand the "We're unhappy but we're staying put" crowd.
Two of the above were generic statements to anyone who may be unhappy or not having fun and the first was specifically in response to me. That's why I referenced both in my statement.
The point is simply, when challenged by someone regardless of whether their motive is unhappiness or lack of fun, rather than just dismissing them with a statement about leaving, it would be better to listen and discuss the points.
Edited to acknowledge:
Carrie J. said:
Clint, what are you talking about? My statement didn't have anything to do with your original post to Ensign.
Oops, I guess I was wrong. :-)
"If passion drives you, let reason hold the reins." --- Benjamin Franklin
People were listening and discussing. You took issue with something that I said that was a kneejerk reaction to Ensign Smith whom I misunderstood, got annoyed (and defensive), and I got defensive back.
I took Ensigns post as a complaint and statement that came across as someone whining. It wasn't meant that way. You took offense at my reply to him. Had that been actual whining, my sentiment still stands.
I have no problem with 'letting it go', but I kind of find it funny that you (in your own words) got annoyed at something I said to someone else after misunderstanding them and now I should 'let it go'.
But whatever. It's done.
Hahahahahahaha.....
Ok. If you want to say things to people that you only want them to read, digest and respond to, then please send them a private message. If you put it in the forum, folks may think you are addressing things they've said, as well. It's a group discussion. Especially when you refer to the "we're unhappy, but we're staying put crowd" which suggests it includes anyone who is unhappy and still posting here.
My bad for misunderstanding you. Thanks for clarifying your words.
"If passion drives you, let reason hold the reins." --- Benjamin Franklin
Wow. I quoted him and responded to him. Yeah. I made reference to a crowd. In general. In life. I guess I should have said that but again, whatever. I'm over the passive aggressive crap.
Tekwardo said: I'm over the passive aggressive crap.
Yes. Yes, it sounds like you're in a good place with things. Let's shake hands and move on.
;-)
"If passion drives you, let reason hold the reins." --- Benjamin Franklin
Or just keep it going.
So to summarize, I think we can all agree that the major problem is obviously Ensign. ;) :)
I think he took the hint a while ago and left. ;-)
"If passion drives you, let reason hold the reins." --- Benjamin Franklin
I was under the impression that he was 'reinventing' himself under a new screen name - although new user with new screen name could be just a perfectly-timed coincidence.
No, he's still here.
Screw it, Let's have a kiki.*
*Some crude language that maybe be NSFW and not appropriate for those under 17 unless you're daddy is Gonch ;)
Tekwardo said:
No, he's still here.
Then it's not a coincidence. :)
*Some crude language that maybe be NSFW and not appropriate for those under 17 unless you're daddy is Gonch ;)
Can't help it if I have it all figured out. Everyone else will catch up eventually.
sws said:
So to summarize, I think we can all agree that the major problem is obviously Ensign. ;) :)
This isn't my nose! It's a false one.
My author website: mgrantroberts.com
More seriously, I didn't mean to sow confusion or discord in the discussion. My "truthy" post was glib but accurate to my feelings, though without a lot of energy behind it. Truth in amusement park advertising is waaaaaay down the Grand List of Important Problems in the Universe.
So, to recap.
I never meant to cause Carrie or Tekwardo or anybody else any sorrow.
I never meant to cause anyof you pain.
I only wanted to see everybody in the forum laughing.
Laughing in the...um, purple coaster train?
My author website: mgrantroberts.com
Carrie J. said:
So if your goal is to get everyone who is unhappy to leave, then it might just end up getting kind of lonely around here....or at least boring with the same folks laughing at all of their own same old jokes.
If they were unhappy they would have already left
LULZ (allcaps)
That was hilarious, Billb! Post of the week stuff right there.
Now on to...
Crap! Carrie, I would never intentionally hurt your feelings. I think highly of you. What I said about hanging in other circles if you are not having fun was not in any way supposed to be directed at you. It wasn't even supposed to sound mean. I'd write a whole book about my rules to living a happy life if someone would actually read it, and part of that book would be about considering to drop the people from your life who give you too much distress. I hope there are no hard feelings. I think the world of you. I'm sorry.
I do not have the right to suggest that anyone go away. There are very few who post here that do.
Carrie said:
And quite honestly, I got better at communicating and making my points because the quality of the dialogue was that good.
Me too. I owe a lot to CoasterBuzz, and Jeff for keeping up the standards of the conversation here, therefor making strive to raise mine. I owe a lot to everyone who posts here regularly for keeping me sharp.
Gator said:
...now if I could only figure out how to cut down on ellipses....
I have an ellipses addiction as well. They are just so darned cute!
...
As far as the votes go, I don't only vote up the posts that I find funny. I also vote up the posts that say what I would say, or that I just plain like. I am a vote up abuser to a fault. I just click and click.
I will purposefully not Vote up a short, funny, clever posts when it seems that that person is only fishing for Vote ups.
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