I think what we see here are the members of Coasterbuzz that really enjoy their hobby. I would guess that most of the people that posted to this thread are adults or mature young adults with good sensible heads on their shoulders.
I think some of the noise comes and bashing comes from younger people who are at that "age". I also think it's cool what's been mentioned here...family & beer...LOL - My two favorite things.
I admit at times I am harsh with SFWOA, but I've never had a bad day there. I was there with the family on Dad's day and had a blast. I only rode 2 coasters (Villian & SUE - I really dig both of those), but my daughter gets so excited going to parks that she shakes when we pull into the parking lot. I have more fun watching her than anything else.
Finally I think the only way to deal with the trolls is to consider the source of the comment and move on.