Someone correct me if I'm wrong, but I think that the magnets on S:TE's cars are rare earth magnets, but the magnets next to the tracks are, in fact electromagnets.
I'm not an expert, but I'm pretty sure that LSMs are indeed turned on and off in sequence(figuring out this exact sequence is what I believe delayed S:TE's opening). The car is pulled towards the car w/the opposite magnetic charge of the rare earth magnets, and the current is switched to push the car past the electromagnet. In an LIM coaster, there is no pushing AND pulling, just waves of pushing.