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Charlotte Nadine Chavez reported her 11-year-old son missing after he didn't show up at Six Flags Elitch Gardens where she dropped him off earlier in the day. She faces up to a year in jail and a $1,000 fine for violating a municipal code.
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When I was that young, I know that I left my parents behind on our annual Cedar Point trips (yes, this does happen at Cedar Point too Parkman.) They were in the park, but I wasn't with them. Most of the time, I was with my older brother and sister, but that wasn't even always the case. I don't think that my parents were doing anything wrong in those instances.
Another thing to consider is if it is okay to have your eleven year old ride his bike through your home town on a nice summer day, or walk over to a friends house. I personally think that kids need those freedoms as long as the kid shows the responsibility to handle it.
I guess that I think, in this case, that the fault lies with the child and the friend's grandmother. Both should have known that they need the okay from mom before going on a sleep over.
Finally, I think that Flying Scooter does have a valid point with kids in medical need with no guardian around. I don't think that it would have been a huge issue when I was a kid and people weren't so lawsuit happy, but now I can see where parks might need to have a policy that no children under a certain age, be in the park without approved adult supervision.
When I would go to CP, PKI, or BGW with my parents, they would always let me and a friend go off in the park on our own for hours at a time, is that abandonment? I would not consider her dropping her kid off at ANY park abandonment, unless she did not come back when she said said she was going to be there.
The story does not mention if the mother had a cell # to be reached at if there would be a problem.
During the desegregation days in Cleveland, I walked 3/4 of a mile in inner-city Cleveland to my bus stop at age 7 and waited, sometimes an hour, for the bus. Tens of thousands of kids like me did the same thing, and somehow we all survived, unsupervised. I think a little common sense is in order.
What are you? The moral authority around here? Don't judge a parent's ability to raise their kid because they had a kid at a young age. That is nothing but old-fashioned b.s.
Jeff. Our generation was able to do the things that you just described when we were growing up with little to no worries. I personally pass that trust off to my 9-year old daughter who I allow to wander in places with me out of site. I am not going to sit around and worry every second of what could happen.
The way some of you reacted to this woman's actions, any of us who are parents should just lock our kids in closets until they reach 18.
REALITY CHECK!!
You have to give your kid some freedom at a certain age and trust that they are mature enough to know their surroundings. It's part of growing up.
I will check back with some of you in 5 years when my daughter is 14 and enjoying her time at SFGAm with her friends and not having daddy following 2 steps behind her. :)
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